I know you also do tantra massage for females, why?

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I  asume massage as a therapy, a pragmatic and holistic method that can help people. I never started doing massage or get involved into tantra expecting to "please men", rather I wanted to work professionally with sexuality and that would implies any individual, doesn't matter their gender or age. Sometimes I receive messages of patients that describes their physical appearance to me, I would like to highlight that this is not relevant for this type pf therapies, this is a service that is intended to help and empower your own self confidence and sexual awareness, It has nothing to do with my view on your body. If you are concern about my opinion then have present that for me the only importance thing while I meet a patient is the serenity, respect and involvement that he /she can have with  the session. I mean people who shows interest in learn something new or in few cases to  people who wants to "heal".

You Speak about "healing", do you have patients who call you to heal or overcome some issue? 

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Normally people call me just for the fact of experience something new (curiosity), sometimes for revive their sensations that has been silenced because of the "fatigue" of a monogamous relationship or simply to have a good moment with them selves. There is only few people who call me for a healing treatment, it is mainly demanded by women, even though there are also men who contact me for that. This makes me happy because beside of giving a beautiful moment I have the satisfaction to help, improve and heal someone. 

Why do you think women are the onces calling you most for a healing process?

Before to answer, I would like to clarify that women who call me (so far) are straight women. Anyway lesbian are welcome to contact me since my therapies doesn't discriminate people for having a different sexual orientation. I am a therapist and I am not here to date people so their sexual orientation and or, once again physical appearance  is not relevant. Now getting back to the question, I believe is because of the patriarchy global society we live in. We, woman,  have been silenced and also raised to please men, it doesn't really matter the pleasure of woman and when it comes to "pleasure women",  men imagine the "concept and ideas" stablished by pornography, an industry that has been created by men to satisfy other men, ignoring completely what women really likes or need. Unfortunately the social pressure is so elevate that women prefer to lie or fake in order to be erotic or sensual enough to finally fulfill their sexual responsibility. Basically for them "sex"for example is a "duty" and not a sensorial and beautiful experience of connection and love. Woman who contact me are in search of an organic sensation, a satisfaction that does not seek expectation or obligation or even competence (with other woman so they feel they have to be always the best, even if this will imply to give up in silence to your total right of feeling). A honest touch that is not violent, is not possessive, is not intended to dominate, but rather just to feel. Unfortunately many woman give up to their own sensuality and sexual impulse and some of them have never even discover it. They call a female therapist because they feel safe, in trust and the most important... understanding that there will never be an obligation or expectation. 

On the other hand males who call me in search of healing are normally people who wants to recover self esteem and confidence or even understand something that has been damage by a trauma. I am also happy to help in that sense. Sensuality is life, is energy and if we hide  behind the fear, we will never be able to develop fully. I know I do a deep explanation about my female patients but is because for men in general sexuality has never been a big issue, society has gave them the privilege to explore it freely. the biggest issue I believe is how males conceive sexuality/sensuality and the role of woman in that. That is why I also like to work with couples and help them in their journey.

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